I am depressed, its happening again, witness this first time in 2014 when I had my first son, anal inconsistency, was depressed, grew fat, hubby started cheating, the thing looked bad for me, lack of self-worth. It got better eventually, now it’s happening again. Gave birth four weeks ago, Inconsistence again, hubby password his phone, first time after 8 years, He is definitely cheating, how do I cope and at least be happy for myself.
Meanwhile, research has shown that there are various ways one can prevent the partner from cheating; they include:
- There should be a conversation on what constitutes cheating, because initially, partners may not be on the same page.
- Examine how well you meet your partner’s wants and needs, and how well they meet yours.
- Encourage honesty with alot of compassion and no judgment. Find out the few things about your partner that no one else knows.
- Give them more of a reason to love and value you.